Tips & Insights

What Neverending Pain Reveals to You

What Neverending Pain Reveals to You: Click to read or pin to save for later. www.achronicvoice.com

A Question on Quora

A question on Quora got me thinking: “What does one learn by having chronic pain?”. Chronic illness turns your world upside down, and it’s impossible to look at it the same way again.

The Fragility of Mankind

I think the biggest realisation that dawned on me, is how fragile human beings truly are. There is a subtle arrogance when one possesses a body that is free of ailments. You feel invincible; that as long as you have enough willpower, you can conquer the world. That as long as you push yourself hard enough, you will get what you want. That you can fuel your system with caffeine and work round the clock, denying the infirmity of sleep to achieve ‘success’. This arrogance becomes a norm that permeates into every aspect of our lives, from relationships to work. You think you have time, and you have no concept of dependence. What is ‘the end’? It is incomprehensible when you are feeling so fine. Why would you need help? Ego is a great manager and has everything under control.

When you live with chronic pain, you come face to face with mortality on a daily basis. The end never feels too far away. You will need help in one form or another, whether you like it or not. If not of a physical nature, then moral or financial. You will realise how little it takes to break the human body; yet you will also realise how much life there is in one single breath.

There is No Answer

The idea that ‘you will never recover’ is foreign. When illness or pain wrecks you, you know that it will pass. This knowledge grants you some strength and comfort. But chronic pain has no beginning or end, it is part of the world we live in. It runs smoothly in parallel to the world of healthy bodies. Nothing seems amiss at first sight, because the world moves too quickly to really see.

With all our advances in medicine and technology, we think that there’s always a solution. But chronic illness has no answer, it is always lurking somewhere, even while in remission. It breathes with us, eats with us, sleeps with us. To the point where sometimes, I think I have even grown attached to its detestable company, simply because it has become familiar. I notice when it is missing. Where could it be? Something is not right with the world. Is it coming back with company?

Perhaps ‘awareness of our fragility’ might not seem like the most important life lesson in the world, but it is the biggest realisation for me. I want to write something positive and insightful in conclusion here, but there is nothing more to it. I would like to say that it forces me to examine my mortality such that I can live more purposefully, but in reality, I am just trying to get by like everyone else in this world.

If you liked this article, sign up for our mailing list here so you don’t miss out on our latest posts!

This article can also be found on the Huffington Post here: https://goo.gl/CH2oxZ
    For More Insight:

  1. 30 Profound Quotes about Death to Live a Meaningful Life (article on inspirationfeed.com): https://goo.gl/girUZX
Pin It:
A question on Quora got me thinking: “What does one learn by having chronic pain?”. The biggest realisation is how fragile we truly are as human beings. Click to read or pin to save for later. | www.achronicvoice.com

3 comments

  • I think the hardest part for me is the never ending state of chronic illness, and the limitations that come with it. Explaining this is hard to people sometimes. You’re right, they seem to think there’s some quick fix, that it’ll pass or something.

    Thank you for this!

    • Indeed, the hardest part is the unpredictability for me. And I suppose black and white, quick fixes are easier to think about 🙂 You’re welcome and take care!

  • […] all the strange lessons I’ve learned from life with chronic illnesses, one of the stranger ones might be this: always wear nice, clean undies, no matter time of day, no […]

Join the discussion

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *