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Invisible in Singapore: What’s It Like to Live Here with Chronic Illnesses?

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*Updated (18 Sep 2018): Kale. Also, images are all from Unsplash.

What’s it Like in My City, Living with Chronic Illnesses

  • Best thing about your city for living with chronic illness?
    Singapore is a tiny city-state that’s only 50 km (31 mi) across. While that means there aren’t many options in terms of landscapes, getaways or housing, what it also brings is convenience.

    Public transport is efficient, and I use Grab a lot (like Lyft). I can usually get a driver within three minutes, and they arrive pretty quick as well! Just about everything has a delivery service available here as well: groceries, beauty products, meal deliveries, laundry, housekeeping, etc. None of these are too expensive either, and there are options any day or time of the week.

  • Speedy Singapore

  • Worst thing about your city for life with chronic illness?
    The weather, for one. It’s hot year round, hovering around 30°C (86°F) or more on average during the day. Humidity levels are about 80%, which can be the real sapper of energy, more so than the heat.

    The lack of space limits the variety of outdoor activities. Cars are ridiculously expensive (which can be a good thing for the environment, I suppose!). A Honda Civic would set you back by about USD84,000. I really enjoy road trips and find them relaxing, but that’s not something that’s possible within the country (you’d be done in an hour 😉 ). Yes there are nice nature trails and small island getaways, but no real camping spots where you just go into nature for a couple days.

    Housing is another pricey affair, and most of us live in apartments. To own an actual house with a garden would cost you millions. On the upside, I guess there’s less housework to do with a smaller house!

  • HDB Apartment in Singapore

  • How accessible do you think your city is?
    My last wheelchair experience was over a decade ago so I can’t really comment on that, but back then I did find it troublesome to move around.

    As for challenges that stem from chronic illnesses such as dizziness, nausea, etc, I feel safe and confident going about my day alone thanks to the ease of hiring transport. The city is small so rushing to the ER is fast, compared to other countries where you’d probably need to drive for at least an hour (and when you’re in pain, a minute feels like eternity).

    My country is known – even mocked – for its strict laws and governance, but that also means safety and low crime rates even at night. All these factors contribute to improving the quality of life not just for me, but every other person as well.

  • Disability accessibility Singapore
    Disability accessibility Singapore
  • How educated is the public on chronic illnesses there?
    My extended family may not understand the full details of my illnesses (they just know that ‘I’m really sick’), but they always make me feel so loved during gatherings. As for the general public, not much at all based on my personal experiences. I’ve faced discrimination in the workplace many times especially from HR. They’ve even used my illnesses as an excuse to exclude me from certain company activities, in order to scrimp on costs.

    Many of us don’t really open up about such things as well, especially if there’s a mental aspect to it, which still holds quite a bit of stigma in most Asian societies. In fact, I only found out that a number of my colleagues and friends also live with chronic illnesses only after I started my blog! It’s surprising how we can become invisible even amongst ourselves, despite the daily pains.

  • Stigma in Singapore

  • If you could pass one new law in your country, what would that be?
    I think I’d still give the same answer as I did in this interview I did on Gemma of Wheelescapade’s blog (see Question 18).

    I’d put a heavy tax or ban on plastic goods and chemicals (I know that there are complexities to this too, so I’m just saying in general) – anything that harms our planet and in turn, us. I believe that the government has great power and a huge role to play in terms of making positive changes within society. One or two small groups aren’t going to make a big difference, or would take a long time to do so, as compared to the awareness and laws a government can make.

  • Which is your favourite city or country (other than your own) and why?
    This is a tough one, because I love travelling, and to different places for totally different reasons!

    For Europe, I like Paris because it’s colourful, delicious, historical, and really a feast for all the senses. Also Italy in general; I remember going to Europe with my family for the first time when I was 13, and my dad’s company lent us a van. We drove around Austria and Switzerland, and they struck me as rather sedate (compared to Asian cities at least). And then we entered Italy, which stood out because it was so vibrant, with the most amazing pizza ever! (You need to remember that 20 years ago, ‘good pizza’ in my country would have been a little above Pizza Hut standard 😉 )

    For Asia, I like Mongolia because it feels so liberating – the endless space is mind blowing, especially since I come from the city where there’s always ‘something in the way’ no matter where I face. There, you can accelerate in any direction for miles and miles without pause. It really was an amazing feeling to me.

    And of course, Hong Kong, because I grew up there and have so many fond memories associated with it. The weekly family outings, summer island getaways, dim sum, Christmas and New Year festivities, after school playtime, the two hour bus ride to school, and so much more. Childhood was also the healthiest and most carefree period of my life. I kind of think of it as my hometown 🙂

  • Hong Kong

  • Where in the world would you visit, if disability, illness or level of fitness weren’t an issue?
    Also the same answer I gave on Gemma’s blog: Iran (or Persia, just because it sounds more romantic 😉 ). The architecture is gorgeous, the complex history is amazing, the food is delicious, and I’m sure it’ll be quite the adventure!

    Check these out:

  • Iran mosque

    Iran art tiles
    Iran architecture
  • What sort of ‘alternative treatments’ wouldn’t raise any eyebrows there? (Perhaps it’s ingrained in the culture, totally legal, etc).
    Traditional Chinese medicine, for one! I mean, lots of us are Chinese here 😉 This includes herbs, acupuncture, tuina, cupping, foot reflexology, etc. The furor over Michael Phelp’s cupping marks was hardly worth mentioning in the local papers. Ayurvedic medicine is also popular, including their herbs, oil massages, etc.

    There are four main racial groups in Singapore (Chinese, Malay, Indian and Eurasian), and we’re mostly respectful and tolerant toward each other. Hospitals have diets available for each of them (I usually select Indian meals because they’re the tastiest for hospital food!), and it’s not too unusual to see people praying to their various gods or handing out protective charms to their loved ones by their hospital beds. Stuff like that.

    Another thing I honestly find baffling is the outrage pain scales cause in Western societies. I’ve never heard of anyone complain about it here (or maybe I don’t talk to enough people). But it’s almost like an unspoken understanding that the pain scale is meant to be interpreted on an individual basis, and the number we give is according to our own pain tolerance levels.

    I was chatting with a girl who lives with Crohn’s in the ward bed next door the other day, and she was telling me a story of how the nurse told her that she had to go to the hospital if her pain levels were at a ‘2’, because her tolerance had become that high!

    I personally have not seen anyone’s pain disbelieved in the wards at least. While Singapore is extremely strict with drugs (I’m sure you’ve heard of our infamous death penalty for drug trafficking), I guess the good side to it is that we get the pain relief we need during acute crises.

    Oh and kale. It’s a very common and cheap vegetable here that people cook all the time! The repackaged ones with fancy letterings in the supermarket are way overpriced 😉

  • Which are the most and least affordable alternative therapies there? How much do they cost in general?
    Body and foot massages are cheaper compared to Western countries, at least from the price lists I’ve glimpsed while overseas! Sometimes people even take a short plane ride for the weekend to places such as Thailand or Bali, where it’s even cheaper and more relaxing. I would imagine visiting a TCM doctor here would be cheaper as well.

    Flotation therapy is pricier compared to the U.S. I think. Cryotherapy is way too expensive for me to even try on a regular basis.

  • Cupping therapy

  • How expensive is it to live with a chronic illness there? Any stats you’d like to share to give a clearer picture?
    My medical bills cost $1,000 – $2,000 per month, most of which are for medications. Drugs belong to different categories, and the government subsidises them at different rates if you’re under public healthcare.

    We have a scheme where chronic illness patients get slightly more coverage, but the ironic thing is that disorders such as Lupus don’t fall under that list…don’t ask me why. I’ve asked various sources, but nobody has a good answer. Isn’t Lupus as chronic as it gets?!

  • What are the hospitals like in terms of service, quality of care, emergency room protocols, etc?
    Service is pretty inconsistent, I think. It depends on which ward I end up in, under which nurses, etc. The quality of care in general is pretty good although once again, there are good and bad doctors and healthcare staff in every institution.

    Emergency room protocols can definitely be improved. I understand that it’s always going to be hectic, but I do think certain changes will help. I think the pre-admission triage needs better guidelines and assignments. While they have a queue system going on, they never seem to be fully maximised. I was once bleeding profusely internally but was left in a corner for hours, and even had a doctor professionally roll her eyes at me when I mistook her for a nurse. Those who are bleeding visibly get attended to immediately, but internal bleeding is probably more deadly.

    I’ve spent years seeing and un-seeing many doctors, surgeons and healthcare professionals. I’m more or less happy with the team I’ve assembled for myself now, even though I had to go under private healthcare for some of my doctors, such as my heart rhythm specialist, as I couldn’t find anyone suitable for me in the public hospitals.

Singapore skyline

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*Note: This Q&A is meant for educational purposes, and is based on my personal experiences only. Nothing is to be substituted for medical advice. Please consult your own doctor before changing or adding new treatment protocols.

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Sarah Warburton
May 26, 2021 23:56

Ok so I’m very late to this but really enjoyed reading about real life in Singapore. I find it fascinating to read about how others live and what life is like elsewhere too. Great idea 🙂

Rhonda - Spoonie Mom Blog
October 7, 2019 11:38

Thanks again for such a wonderful linkup. It already feels like I’m going on a little trip by reading each blog. Love, love, love your informative post on Singapore. You and I have a funny thing in common. When it comes to hospital meals, Indian food is my favorite too. Great photos!

Carrie Kellenberger
October 15, 2018 17:00

I’m late, but better late than never. I learned a lot from this article as well as from our own meet-up while you were in Taipei.

I think the thing I found most surprising about Singapore is the cost of everything there. I was really shocked when you told me how much it costs for people to live in Singapore with a chronic illness until I found out what medications cost in Taiwan without insurance.

What a great idea for a blog link-up. I’ve really enjoyed participating in your link-up parties. I wish I had time to do more of them.

Emma (Not Just Tired)
September 21, 2018 22:31

Really interesting read Sheryl. Great to hear more about where you live and from the perspective of chronic illness. So interesting to hear about different cities and cultures – great idea! It’s kind of like travelling without the effort!! xx

Deborah Rogers
September 21, 2018 10:42

This was such an interesting post. It sounds like you’ve become a good voice for others, helping them to open up about their illness and pain. It’s interesting what you say about the pain scale, because it drives me crazy. I never know what to answer doctors. When my pain is high but I am feeling like I am managing it, I rate the pain low, but then docs don’t realize how badly I’m feeling. It confuses me what I should tell docs sometimes. Thanks for sharing this info!

September 20, 2018 21:09

It’s really interesting to see how illness is treated around the globe, both in terms of perception as well as healthcare. I’m curious, are the alternative therapies (any/some/all)covered by insurance in Singapore? I’m just wondering since, as you mention, you have a large Chinese culture and Chinese medicine is common, if that is covered there? Most alternative therapies aren’t covered here in the U.S.

As for the pain scale, I think that’s probably because, at least here in the U.S, doctors/health professionals are often more rigid – i.e. “we can’t do xyz until your pain is at a 6”. So if for instance, you have a high pain tolerance you may never “qualify” for that, because you may never reach a 6, even though you could be worse off than someone with a low pain tolerance who says they’re at an 8. Some doctors/health professionals get that it’s personal, but I honestly think so much of that is insurance getting in the way – we have so many rules and regulations about what you can do when and why because of insurance, that I think doctors feel they have to “stick to the rules”. Just my interpretation, of course. 🙂

Caz / InvisiblyMe
September 19, 2018 00:06

This is fascinating as I’ve wondered what healthcare is like elsewhere, and it’s interesting to read the social aspect too in terms of acceptance/understanding of invisible illness. Great post, very intriguing reading but a shame about the emergency care and also having to go private for certain things (though I guess it’s similar in the UK with often having to go private for various referrals and tests, and improvements could always be made with A&E). x

September 18, 2018 14:28

Sheryl, this was so interesting! My cousin lives in Singapore, she is a physiotherapist. She said that she has had to really get her head around the difference between the healthcare there and here (UK), but she loves it! The acceptance of alternative remedies sounds great.

September 18, 2018 06:25

This was so interesting! It’s a great idea for a theme for linked blogposts. I’m hunting down the others now.

Claire Saul
September 18, 2018 00:06

Sheryl, I love this post so much – so interesting! I am starting to think about mine…..I have mentioned you and shared your post in a shout out on Magic Magic Inspiring Blogs for You! Claire x