What Does Your Wish List Reflect?
What’s on your wish list, and why do you want these things? They tend to contain practical items that make everyday living easier, or luxurious treats that warm the heart.
I’m not going to complain if I receive a fancy handbag, expensive perfume or surprise holiday, so go ahead 😉 But my wish list has definitely evolved along with my chronic illnesses, to include things like pain relieving products.
I could probably conclude that the ultimate desire behind every wish list is a better quality of life, whatever that means to each of us.
Do you know someone who lives with chronic illnesses, but aren’t sure what to get them this Christmas or holiday season? Here’s 15 gift ideas that might make a small or big difference in their lives!
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Updated: 25 October 2021
1. Oska Pulse
(Image Source: Oska Wellness)
At the top of my wish list is the Oska Pulse. Every week, I read a positive review about it from a different chronic illness blogger. It is a little device that uses PEMF (Pulse Electromagnetic Frequency), a technology that’s also used in hospitals for bone healing purposes.
All you have to do is to place it near the site of your pain, and that’s it. You don’t feel a thing – it’s not a massage device, or a TENS machine. In fact, it doesn’t work by blocking out pain. (What?!) It apparently works at the cellular level to heal the source of the problem, instead.
From what I have read, it seems to work great for Rheumatoid Arthritis and Fibromyalgia – which I don’t have – but I’d like to try it out for Lupus and Sjögren’s Syndrome chronic pain.
Anything to cut down some steroids, which I’ve been on for more than a decade without a break, talk about destructive. My bones border on osteoporosis levels because of this, and I can’t help but wonder if the Oska Pulse will have a positive affect on them too, since PEMF aids with bone healing. (Is that too much to ask for?)
It’s great that they have a 90-day money back guarantee which makes it more appealing.
This device is an enhanced TENS machine, and works by blocking out pain signals to your brain. It’s like a wearable painkiller, instead of an oral one.
You strap it onto your calf no matter where the pain is, and wear it for up to 24 hours as needed. Technology is pretty amazing, don’t you think? They also have a 60-day money back guarantee.
Update: I received the Quell for free in 2020, although I didn’t need to write the review in the end. They were very generous with the supplies, and I’d say that the product seemed to help to relieve my joint aches somewhat!
3. Sentient Element
(Image Source: sentientlight.com)
This is another PEMF device on the market that comes in a range of intensities. Larry Langdon, the founder of Sentient Element, has over 30 years of experience with innovating cutting-edge technologies for Boeing, National Semiconductor, Intel, Microsoft and other classified projects for high-level applications.
He too lives with chronic pain from Lyme Disease, and Sentient Element was born out of his determination to find pain relief.
Most PEMF devices come in the range of 1 – 50Hz, whereas Sentient Element has goes up to 7 – 10,000Hz. It supports all wave forms, is portable and comes with an advanced dual coil system. What this means is that it penetrates deeper, and covers a wider area of your body where the pain is.
4. YuYu Hot Water Bottle
This is a product that I got to try and review, and it’s been a useful addition to my personal pain relief toolkit. Unlike a generic hot water bottle, the YuYu Bottle comes in a long shape with a variety of cover materials to choose from, such as fleece, cashmere and organic cotton. They even have a series meant specifically for spoonies (people with chronic illnesses)!
You can tie it around your waist and go about your chores; the length and flexibility also mean that you can drape it across all sorts of body parts, and I hug it as a warm, comforting bolster to sleep.
5. Flotation Therapy
Who said that gift ideas had to be limited to products? Flotation therapy works great for both physical and mental stress relief. In fact, I emerged from my first float ever feeling the most relaxed I’ve been in years!
Flotation induces a state of sensory deprivation, which leads you to the theta state of awareness; Kind of like daydreaming on a long car ride. It’s literally meditation without even trying. It also stimulates creativity and speeds up muscle repair, on top of many other health benefits.
The only problem as always, is the hefty price tag. A 60 minute session costs $90 (~USD66) here, or $75 (~USD55) if you buy a package.
As with many treatments, one attempt is usually insufficient to reap the full benefits, or to judge the effects with accuracy. So a gift card for more floats is always a good idea! 😉
6. Instant Pot
An instant pot is a multi-cooker which functions as a slow cooker, pressure cooker, yoghurt maker and more! I already own one of these, and they have my seal of approval on the gift ideas list!
We wanted to buy the InstaPot brand, but didn’t realise how troublesome that would be in Singapore/Australia (shipping, weight, adaptor), and ended up purchasing a Philips one instead.
What we did was to prepare a month’s supply of meals and freeze them in separate bags. Write the name of the dish down with a marker, together with any extra steps needed such as garnishing.
After that you can dump each meal straight from the freezer into the pot, and have a warm, nourishing meal ready for dinner!
Another thing you could do to help someone who lives with chronic pain, is to prepare frozen meals such as these. Once again, gift ideas do not need to be a product. It will make a huge and positive difference in their everyday life.
7. Roomba / Deebot / Robot Vacuum Cleaner
My philosophy is to automate anything that’s repetitive and mindless in nature, whenever possible. Well unless it’s something beneficial like exercise, then habits are essential!
Robot vacuum cleaners have become a popular household helper item. Even people who don’t live with chronic illnesses buy these to save themselves some time and hassle.
My sister bought my dad a Deebot for his birthday (but really, we all benefit from it 😉 ). I must say that it’s so nice to have it making its way around the house every night, helping out a little with the household chores.
I also have pet birds, who are capable of making a mess even whilst inside their cages. Empty shell husks have a way of floating everywhere, and they love to kick stuff out of their food bowls. And now with a dog that sheds quite a bit as well, our robot vacuum cleaner is really handy.
I suppose anyone with a kid would face the same problem, perhaps even more so. A dirty house and dusty floors are never good for our mental wellbeing either. So I think we can all agree that a robot vacuum clean is nice to have on the wish list?!
8. Blogging Tools & Packages
To run a blog that’s efficient and able to scale, you need to invest in it. This applies to blogging in any niche, including chronic illnesses. Many of these advocates and bloggers don’t have much cash to spare as it is!
There are the basic hosting and domain costs that cannot be avoided. Then other tools that help make blogging life a bit easier, your website speed faster and more. This benefits both the blogger and the viewer.
Popular blogging tools include:
I subscribe to Buffer’s most basic plan, which allows me to schedule posts across various social media platforms such as Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.
This saves me so much time and effort, as I don’t have to post or keep track of everything on my social media accounts manually. I can also schedule posts throughout the day, which helps me to reach a larger worldwide audience who may find the information useful.
I also curate a lot of posts from health news sources and from other chronic illness bloggers. Buffer allows me to schedule, rearrange and analyse all of these with ease. This helps me to figure out what timings and what sort of posts people find the best, so I can publish better content.
Pinterest is one of the best social media platforms for outreach, and is more of a visual search engine, really. Tailwind has a few nifty features for Pinterest: Pin scheduling, Communities and Smart Loop. For Instagram, it has: Post scheduling and a Smart Bio.
Tailwind Communities are collaborative groups you can create or join, with the aim of increasing the outreach of your pins to targeted audiences. With Smart Loop, you can select your best performing pins and have Tailwind automatically re-pin them wherever you like. This also aims to increase outreach. Smart Bio allows you to consolidate many links on a single landing page.
There are tons of social media and blogging tools available, and each blogger has their own preferences. You can support a blogger friend’s cause by purchasing a subscription or voucher for them, for their favourite platform(s)!
9. Bullet Journal
If you haven’t watched the video on the original Bullet Journal website, the concept is quite fascinating. There are also many beautiful journal examples all over Pinterest, with all sorts of styles for inspiration!
I’m on my second bujo, even though I admit that I don’t really need it 😉 I just find it fun to add some colours, stamps, and stickers to it. It is a tremendous aid for some though, especially those who have memory issues, brain fog, need to track their complex medical symptoms, or like to track habits or activities as a form of motivation.
Journals, even if it’s not a bullet journal, would make great presents for anyone, considering that the slate is literally blank. Use them to stimulate your creative juices, journal your days, jot down your dreams and life goals, record your favourite quotes and phrases, or do them all!
10. Heating Pad
I have a nice and big hot water bottle for days when my period strikes, or when my joints are mega achy. I must live in a cave, but I recently discovered that mysterious objects called ‘heating pads’ exist! (Or maybe I just live in a tropical climate with little need for heated products. Am I excused?)
In fact, I’ve personally never seen another Asian girl use a hot water bottle for period pain, and it was my boyfriend who introduced them to me at the tender age of 30. But let me just say – they work.
The added benefits to a heating pad include heat intensity controls, and I won’t burn my clumsy self with boiling water ever again! Apart from blankets, they also come in many other forms that target different body parts.
11. Weighted Blanket
These blankets are in common usage by those with autism or sensory issues. The weight feels like a warm embrace, which stimulates oxytocin, sometimes referred to as the ‘hug hormone’.
This apparently helps you to fall asleep faster, with a better quality of rest (ain’t that the dream?). The price differs according to the material used to fill it; do ensure that it’s non-toxic, otherwise you’d just be trading one problem for another!
Update: I’ve bought myself one of these since last Christmas, but was a little disappointed in terms of the purported effects of aiding with sleep and anxiety issues. One thing I hadn’t anticipated was the irony of the weight, when trying to pull the blanket over myself every night whilst aching everywhere!
12. Subscription Boxes
Subscriptions are not limited to magazines these days. There are subscription boxes for coffee, tea, even flowers and self-care! Anything you can sell, you can subscribe to; the world is moving towards a recurring sales model, whether we like it or not.
Whilst I’d rather spend my money on a specific thing I want instead of random objects in a box, it doesn’t mean that surprises aren’t nice! If you’re not sure of what to get for someone with chronic illnesses, here’s a list of subscription boxes created specially for them. These curated packages consist of lovely self-care items for pain relief, to lift their moods and more.
Anticipating and receiving a pleasant surprise always produces a warm, fuzzy feeling despite the pain, doesn’t it?
13. Indoor Smart Gardens
Indoor smart gardens are becoming very popular, and for good reason. You can plant your own seeds, and harvest your own vegetables, fruits or flowers. They also don’t need much monitoring or upkeep, which is perfect for those with chronic fatigue or chronic pain.
14. Flowers, Plants & Nature-Related Items
Flowers are a welcome burst of life any time or day for people like me, who love to arrange and receive them both! You could either get them a lovely bunch, or a subscription box where they can play around and make their own floral arrangements (yes I did say there are subscription boxes for everything, no?! 😉 )
Flowers are such beautiful reminders of life, in all their fragility and beauty. They can help to brighten up a dull room or bring some much needed cheer. They show people that you care and that you remember them, which brings comfort and joy.
If fresh flowers are not a viable option, there are also dried flowers, elegant flower domes with fairy lights, self-sustaining terrariums, hanging air planters, succulents and nature-inspired prints and patterns.
Here are some magical flower domes I found!
15. Books & Magazines
Books are usually a good idea for most people. A captivating paperback is time well spent. Hardcovers or coffee table books with beautiful prints on good paper are also such a treat!
Not sure which book to pick? Here are the Editors’ Picks and bestsellers of the month on Amazon.
Books are also a wholesome physical experience. I take pleasure in fondling the paper, taking in the musty scent, and enjoy the high quality of photographs or illustrations. It all adds up to help you unwind on a subconscious level. In fact, studies have found that reading can reduce stress by up to 68%!
I also have a huge love for magazines, and usually have one by my bedside in addition to a book. I reach out for it whenever I feel like I need a little soothing. Magazines can be more creative with their presentation, which is refreshing.
You usually need to absorb the content or storyline in a book, or risk becoming lost the further you continue. But magazines are usually split into interconnected proses which you can skip or read piecemeal.
Whilst gift cards may seem a little boring, they’re pretty safe gifts if you’re unsure of what to get! Also, not every disabled person is able to hold a physical book, so an e-book or audiobook might actually be a better option.
16. Amazon Kindle
As mentioned above, some people with chronic illnesses and disabilities aren’t able to handle physical books too well. Whilst I enjoy the physical experience of a paperback, reading on a Kindle comes with its own set of benefits, too. I never thought that I’d be one for reading on a screen. But when I received a Kindle as a gift, I was surprised at how enjoyable it is to read off it, too!
The size fits perfectly against the palm of my hand, and the light weight is a plus especially if you have wrist or chronic pain. Unlike mobile phones, the e-ink isn’t harsh on the eyes, and good for reading in bed when you can’t sleep.
In fact, I managed to finish reading Catherine the Great: Portrait of a Woman thanks to the Kindle. I was struggling to read the paperback that weighs about 1kg (2.35 pounds) with my sore hands.
I have the Kindle Paperwhite, and would recommend it; it comes with a backlight which is important in my opinion.
This wish list is a reflection of my current state in life. Many of these are things I’d never thought I’d want or need in another life. If not for my chronic illnesses, I probably wouldn’t even know of their existence! To the people who invented these wonderful products – thank you.
My wish list also probably looks a little different compared to others, based on the varying kinds of pains we experience. Over to you – what’s on your wish list, and how does that reflect your current state of being?
*Note: This article is the author’s personal opinion, and meant for educational purposes. It is not to be substituted for medical advice. Please consult your own doctor before changing or adding new treatment protocols.
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